The secret to a healthy, satisfying, and supportive romantic relationship is self-love. Google self-love now. You’ll find millions of articles. Loving yourself makes you more attractive to a potential partner. Loving yourself sets the tone for how your partners treat you. Loving yourself reinforces that your lover doesn’t complete you. It all sounds great, doesn’t it? So if relating is as… Continue reading Self-Love; Why Doesn’t It Work Even Though It Sounds Good?
Ladies, I’ll be the first one to admit to doing this. I catch myself all the time not listening to Rob as deeply as I could. Cutting him off when he’s talking, or speaking before he’s had a chance to fully reflect. He does a great job of letting me know when he feels cut… Continue reading How Women Demasculinize Men Everyday In Conversation
The Double Bind Rules Of The Game. Sometimes people don’t take life seriously enough. It is dangerous to treat life like a game, you could die before you’re supposed to! One of the best ways to ensure that people take life more seriously, is to create conditions in your relationship where they feel ‘damned if… Continue reading How To Destroy Your Relationship In 5 Easy Steps
Recently I had the pleasure of spending some quality time connecting with my friend’s mother; which I might add, is a really wonderful thing to do if you’re missing that motherly connection sort of thing in your life. She has four grown, beautiful children that love to be with each other, and actively seek their… Continue reading Conscious Homecoming: 5 Ways to Create Homes Children Want to Return to
” Your word can create the most beautiful dream, or your word can destroy everything around you. Impeccability of the word only creates beauty, love, and heaven on earth.” -Don Miguel Ruiz The Elephant in the Room. What is this thing, hanging in the air between us? This thing that feels heavy and uninspiring? Seemingly of its own character… Continue reading Speaking To The Elephant In The Room
Jealousy is more than uncomfortable, it’s downright terrifying. At the mere mention of the J word I feel a disturbance in the force akin to speaking Voldemort’s name aloud in a Harry Potter novel. In fact, Jealousy is oftentimes the first barrier that people identify for themselves in response to me sharing with them that… Continue reading Leveraging Jealousy
Wedding ceremonies are a fantastic analogue to relationships. You can choose the default, uniform way of doing things, or you can totally break with tradition, question everything, and create something uniquely tailored to suit your style. Désirée and I chose the latter option on both accounts. Traditions are an ever evolving conversation between the collective soul and the collective consciousness; so listen well,… Continue reading Our Consciously Co-created Wedding