Conscious Relationship · Self-Actualization

Self-Love; Why Doesn’t It Work Even Though It Sounds Good? 

The secret to a healthy, satisfying, and supportive romantic relationship is self-love. Google self-love now. You’ll find millions of articles. Loving yourself makes you more attractive to a potential partner. Loving yourself sets the tone for how your partners treat you. Loving yourself reinforces that your lover doesn’t complete you. It all sounds great, doesn’t it? So if relating is as… Continue reading Self-Love; Why Doesn’t It Work Even Though It Sounds Good? 

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Our Consciously Co-created Wedding

Wedding ceremonies are a fantastic analogue to relationships. You can choose the default, uniform way of doing things, or you can totally break with tradition, question everything, and create something uniquely tailored to suit your style. Désirée and I chose the latter option on both accounts. Traditions are an ever evolving conversation between the collective soul and the collective consciousness; so listen well,… Continue reading Our Consciously Co-created Wedding


The “Evil” of Feminine Choice

I felt so deeply saddened when I learned about the Elliot Rodgers shooting. Tragedies like these sink my heart down into my stomach, test my faith in humanity, and send out dark energetic ripples of intense emotion and pain that reverberate around the world. I later discovered there is an online forum of men who… Continue reading The “Evil” of Feminine Choice


How to Develop Your Emotional Integrity

Gary Van Warmerdam, a teacher of considerable experience in the Toltec Path, features an essay on his website exploring how individuals who are out of alignment with their emotional integrity can  manipulate their romantic partners into giving them attention against their own will. See if any of the following sounds familiar to you. Partner A… Continue reading How to Develop Your Emotional Integrity